A committed relationship is built on trust. Whether you are married, engaged or just strongly committed to each other, you and your significant other have to trust each other when you are out of each other’s sight.
So, are you cheating if you go to a gentlemen’s club?
No … Definitely not!
Suppose you are heading to a gentlemen’s club in Dallas because your best friend from college is getting married. Bachelor parties and gentlemen’s clubs go together like enchiladas and salsa. Your wife or girlfriend – if you explain what you are doing and who is going – will probably be fine with it. You are there to give your best friend a great sendoff, not cheat on your lady.
Her Point of View
If you deliberately hide your plans from your Very Important Lady, she might feel like you are cheating on her, even though you actually are not. This would be true whether you were slipping away to a gentlemen’s club in Fort Worth or a rodeo in Houston. If you sneak around, you are saying she cannot trust you. Moreover, you are saying you do not trust her to decide her own feelings about the situation.
It’s always better to let her know your plans. Talk about it and – who knows? – she may just want to tag along to see the sights!
Another angle to consider on the “It’s all good” side of the discussion is that, frankly, humans are beautiful; to think we cannot appreciate beautiful women, that we somehow have to pretend only one person exists for us, is silly. You can admire and enjoy the beautiful entertainers and their sexy bodies at Bucks Cabaret, boost your confidence a bit, and go home to your beautiful girlfriend or wife.
Does your wife or girlfriend get jealous that you see certain movie stars on the big screen? Probably not. Then you should give her no reason to worry about you watching the gorgeous girls at Bucks Cabaret, either.
The dancers and entertainers at Bucks Cabaret are professionals. They have great radar and know when to keep their distance and when to cozy up. A private dance is, after all, private, but all the ladies at Bucks know how to keep things strictly professional. The vibes you send out are the vibes they pick up, so you can have a great time without putting yourself in any situation to make yourself, or your significant other, feel guilty.